I get alot of questions about using social media these days – Facebook, Twitter and the like. The biggest mistake is talking about yourself, as this article describes. If you want to use social media, make it an effective part of your marketing plan. Learn, plan, apply, test and evaluate like any other marketing activity.

I’ve been reading Joan Stewart a.k.a. The Publicity Hound and her newsletter ever since she started it years ago. She offers great practical advice for small business owners seeking publicity and has grown along with the internet. Her weekly newsletter is free and the credit at the end of the article directs you to her site and blog. She is a “10″ in my book!

This is from the Nov. 24th newsletter:

1. Stop Talking About Yourself
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If social media were a cocktail party, many of us would be heading
for home by 8:30.

That’s because everybody seems to be talking about themselves:

“I’m standing in line at Starbucks.”

“I’m starting my day with a hot bowl of oatmeal.”

“I just dropped my kids off at school. It’s pouring rain!”

Chris Brogan, who is arguably one of the top social media experts
in the world and whose blog has been ranked Number 1 by Advertising
Age magazine, says we should be spending 12 times as much time
talking about other people as we do about ourselves.

He spoke last week at the Web 2.0 Expo in New York City. A
10-minute snippet of his presentation at
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=L69A3&m=1fFHyyzuPTtYrK&b=rXjHm_9biQkYkibc9qCmmQ may be one of the most valuable
videos you’ll watch all year. His tips:

–If you’re not spending time using http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=L69A3&m=1fFHyyzuPTtYrK&b=DIWrIzToQ2CJjZ29Dg9vGA
or the search part of your social media application, you’re missing
one of the best opportunities that social media offers. That’s
because you can search for people who are talking about specific
topics. Following conversations is often more valuable than
following people.

–We should be listening far more than worrying about what to say.

–When we share helpful tips and information from other people,
that makes us more valuable to the people who follow us. Eighty
percent of his Twitter posts are responses to things other people
have tweeted.

–No continual “barking” (his words, not mine) about your products.

–The difference between an audience and a community is the way you
turn the chairs.

As you watch the video, notice the tweets that show up on the
screen behind him. Many of them are from audience members who are
tweeting about his presentation. They’re using the hashtag #w2e in
their tweets. That makes it easy for anyone searching for
information about the conference to find it at
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=L69A3&m=1fFHyyzuPTtYrK&b=DIWrIzToQ2CJjZ29Dg9vGA

Read more about how to use hashtags for publicity at my blog at
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=L69A3&m=1fFHyyzuPTtYrK&b=0PwgI_bFrIaM.twXKwq_KQ

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Reprinted from “The Publicity Hound’s Tips of the Week,” an ezine
featuring tips, tricks and tools for generating free publicity.
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